Thursday Thoughts

These words we hear so often in our sanctuary as we share in communion with one another. These words, weighty. As we recall the final meal Jesus shared with those closest to him on the night he was betrayed, we are reminded of the ultimate sacrifice made for us.  

As Rachel Held Evans writes in Searching for Sunday, “Remember how God became one of us? Remember how God ate with us and drank with us, laughed with us and cried with us? Remember how God suffered for us, and died for us, and gave his life for the life of the world? Remember? Remember?”

Part of what we are called to remember when participating in the Lord’s Supper is the depth of Christ’s love. From his very first sermon, Jesus’ ministry focused on the outsiders. His life and teachings exemplified the kind of love that seeks the welfare of others above all else. Seeking the outcasts and giving welcome to the stranger. Whoever the world does not want finds shelter in the kingdom of heaven. Today is Maundy Thursday, and we will share in communion together. Here at AFBC we believe it is God’s table and not ours, meaning all are welcome and invited to participate in holy communion. Isn’t that a beautiful thing?

Do this in remembrance of me. These words ask us to remember the radical love of Jesus Christ for all people. The acceptance Christ showed when he invited us all to sit at his table.

These words are also a reminder that there is still work to be done, and we are the ones who have been commanded to do it.

Grace and Peace,

Sarah Laurence

I must be honest. During this season of Lent, I have been less than diligent in practicing a spiritual discipline.  Of course, I have an excuse.  I have been busy.  Selling a house, buying a condo, moving to a new city, making new friends (and trying my best to remember all your names), and learning a new job has taken up some time.  I try to justify and say that this year has just been too hectic to add a Lenten discipline to an already busy life.   

That is the thing about spiritual disciplines, though.  They are not meant to be convenient.  They cannot be easy.  Discipline, after all, is practicing something that rarely ever feels natural. The practices of Lent, whether you decide to give up something, or to add a routine of showing kindness, or reserve time for study or meditation, or whatever you might choose to do should not be something you necessarily feel like doing.

Lent offers us an opportunity to see with Jesus.  When we practice a discipline, we walk with him in the wilderness as he faces the tempter.  We struggle with him as he resists the demands that he be the king.  We agonize with him at Gethsemane as he deals with the reality of laying down his life.  We hang with him on the cross as he nears death.  We lay aside our living and we hope for the possibility of Resurrection, and the newness it will bring.

By the way, have you ever noticed how close the word discipline is to disciple?  Both words come from the Latin word “discipulus”, which means student, learner, or follower.  I find it interesting that one cannot be a disciple without discipline.  A disciple is one who is finding a new way to see and know and be.  And that requires discipline.

Perhaps you have heard of Richard Foster’s book, Celebration of Discipline. Foster does more than just cover aspects and ways of practicing spiritual discipline, he offers a way to see how discipline opens the door to discipleship.  He says, “Disciplines are not the answer; they only lead us to the Answer.” 

Maybe you are like me and have been putting off this practice of discipline.  Not to fret, there is still time.  8 days remain in the 40 days of Lent.  And I hope you have inferred already, but Lent is not the only time to be a practicing discipliner, or disciple of Jesus.

Luke reminds us of how we follow.  He distinguishes himself from the other synoptics (Mark and Matthew) and adds a word to Jesus’ admonition to take up our cross and follow.  In Luke Jesus tells his disciples, “If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their crossdaily and follow me.” (Luke 9:23 NRSV).  

Every day.  Every season.  Even if you have a condo to paint.

Peace be with you.

Christian

Rooted & Grounded, the podcast we produce here at Aiken’s First Baptist Church, is great! I don’t say that only because I spend time each week editing and posting its content, but because it is true. Whether you just want to take another listen to the sermon from a given Sunday, or dive into one of our many focused series, there is something to found enjoyed.

Currently we have been regularly listening episodes of a new series that we call “Meditation and Prayer Toolkit”. These episodes are designed to be digestible and repeatable. Some are meditations focused on specific topics such as anxiety or gratitude. Some are reflections on your day, also called Examen. They are meant to be used by you and others as a means to grow in your faith and provide a measure of peace in the midst of the chaos of daily life. We pray that you’ll take a listen when you have the chance and glean some benefit from them!

Our podcast can be accessed from major podcast providers like spotify, apple, or google. It can also be listened to directly in our app! Follow the button below to get a taste of what this series is all about!

Zach Derr

Director of Music & Worship

“My Great Adventure” was how my best friend in Dalton Georgia described my move to Aiken South Carolina.  Using Steven Curtis Chapman’s song, Great Adventure, she told me to “get ready for the ride of my life!  Gonna leave in a cloud of dust and discover all the new horizons just waiting to be explored.  This is what you’re created for.” 

Six years ago this weekend I relocated to this city and began as your Church Administrator.  What an adventure it has been!  You welcomed me warmly.  You have loved me through COVID, the passing of my mom, staff changes, buying a home, and life’s other ups and downs.  You have given me encouragement, respected my opinions, and helped me grow both as an Administrator and in my walk with God.  You are a great family of faith and I feel privileged to continue to be a part of this community!   

Thank you so much for the beautiful reception, your well wishes, and the gift card to Hobby Lobby!  I appreciate you all so much. 

I am still on “My Great Adventure” and look forward to doing life with you! 

Saddle up your horses; you’ve got a trail to blaze, 

through the wild blue yonder of God’s Amazing Grace. 

Just follow your leader into the Glorious unknown, 

this is the life like no other – this is your great adventure. 

Blessings, 

Debra 

I am so excited to have the privilege of telling you about our Vacation Bible School this summer! It will take place on Monday, June 16th through Thursday, June 19th from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. each day. This event is free of charge and intended for children going into 4K through children going into 6th grade (there will be a nursery provided, but only for volunteers who have children that do not fall in said age range). Our theme this year is “True North: Trusting Jesus in a Wild World.” We will have the wonderful opportunity to “guide kids on the ultimate Alaskan adventure where they’ll have the chance to experience Jesus, their unmovable, unshakable friend forever!”

Registration for this event is already open! All you have to do to sign your little ones up is use the following link and fill out the prompts under “Participant Registration.” Once you submit the form, you should receive a confirmation email and be good to go! Please let me know if you run into any issues or if you have any questions/special circumstances you need to discuss.

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However, this event can’t happen without a team of awesome people! That’s you! If you would like to volunteer for this event, please contact me so we can discuss or let me know what position you would like to serve in. Whether you feel really passionate about a certain role or are willing to serve just about anywhere, please let me know as soon as possible so that we can get everyone plugged in and equipped.

Speaking of being equipped, you will want to be sure to mark Sunday, May 18th on your calendars. There will be a meeting in the Roberts Building at 5:00 p.m. for all V.B.S. volunteers to share a meal with those they will be working with, receive their materials, and hear what their schedules and duties will look like. However, before that meeting, there will be a “Safety First” procedure training at 4:00 p.m. for anyone who has not yet been trained on our church’s new policy regarding the protection of children, youth, and vulnerable adults. That way, you have the option of attending one or both meetings depending on what your needs are. Those only attending the first meeting are welcome to grab a bite to eat before departing. Registration for these meetings will be provided in the coming weeks!

In the meantime, you can help by telling those in your circle about V.B.S. and inviting them out to join us too! This will be a wonderful opportunity to practice joy through play, deepen relationships with those we know, and to make connections with those we don’t. Let’s dig deep to help make this event all it can be and to show our community the love of God!

In truth and love,

Matt Waller

mwaller@fbcaiken.org

(704) 466-2321

In Indonesian, thank you is said with the words “terima kasih,” which literally translate, “receive love.”

Since Indonesian is a very simple language without complex conjugation, one thing I could never figure out is if the word receive was an imperative or a first-person, singular, active verb.  In other words, it could be heard as a command or request to the person I want to tell thank you—receive the love I am giving you out of gratitude for what you have done.  Alternatively, it could be heard as a description of what I am actively receiving—I receive the love you are giving in the action you are taking.  I guess a lack of clarity is actually helpful, for to say thank you is to both express love for the one who has done a wondrous thing and to acknowledge that I have felt loved as the recipient of that wondrous thing.

With that context, I believe that I can speak for all of our church to Debra Haney when I say, “terima kasih!”

Debra, we pray that you may receive the love we have for you for it is born of genuine gratitude and deep appreciation, not only for all you have done but for how you have done it and for who you are.  Thank you for taking a risk to move cities and states and come to a place you had never been all on your own.  Thank you for bringing your administrative skills and for applying them with exceeding grace.  Thank you for caring for us even as you led us.  We pray that you may receive the love we have for you today and for many days, weeks and months to come.

We also pray that you know we have received love from you.  Your words of encouragement and kindness, your loyalty to the call of Christ and your commitment to our church family, and your sincere prayers and thoughtful actions have all conveyed the love that God has planted within your heart for you to share with us and the world around.  All of these gifts have not gone unnoticed but have been received with gratitude.

And in the days and weeks to come may you know that our love for you continues and may be showered by the richest of loves from God, our creator, sustainer, and redeemer.

Grace and Peace, 

John

This afternoon I’d love to reflect together on something very special that we have at this church. You may notice with the changing of the liturgical calendar different elements come into our space and others leave. Some of these changes are obvious, like the addition of candles, wreathes, and poinsettias during Advent. Some may be more subtle, like the changing of our kneeling bench cushion or the bookmark in the bible on the communion table.

With the beginning of Lent I’d like to highlight one such change to our sanctuary that is really something special. Prior to our Ash Wednesday service our artwork representing the fourteen stations of the cross were hung surrounding the sanctuary. Stations of the Cross might not be a familiar term for you. They are known by other names as well. The Latin phrase Via Crucis means Way of the Cross and is sometimes used. Or perhaps you’ve heard them referred to as the Way of Sorrows, Via Dolorosa. Whatever name attributed to them they are a powerful way of commemorating the Passion and death of Jesus Christ. Every one of the fourteen stations represents a pivotal event which occurred on Jesus’ journey to calvary and beyond.

The set of the Stations of the Cross that we house here at Aiken’s First Baptist were donated by George A. Naifeh, a former U.S. diplomat to many countries around the world, and his wife Marian. This was truly a generous gift, as only 50 sets of this collection were ever created. Bruce Onobrakpeya, is a Nigerian based artist who Mr. Naifeh met in his travels. Mr. Onobrakpeya gifted this set (number 14 of 50) to Mr. Naifeh. Bruce Onobrakpeya fused into his art vivid colors and many influences of his own Urhobo culture. A devout Christian, you can feel the faithfulness with which they were crafted as you look at each print.

It is our prayer that you will take time to reflect on each station in the Lenten season to come. This act is a wonderful way to ground one’s faith in a liturgical and spiritual practice. This is a step beyond superficiality, to a deeper place of piety. The darkness seen in each vignette as Jesus walks to the cross helps us to truly appreciate his sacrifice, and to truly feel the joy of the resurrection that follows.

Soli Deo gloria,

Zachary Derr

Whether you are like me and have never played pickleball a day in your life or you are like many members of our community who love to play pickleball regularly, I am so excited to have the pleasure of inviting you to join us at 10:00 a.m. on Saturday, March 8th for a fun time of pickleball and fellowship right here in our very own AFBC gym. Regardless of whether you have pickleball equipment, know the rules of the game, or even consider yourself an athlete, I hope you will try something new and join us as we learn together.

Over the past several months, many groups within the life of our church have been brainstorming ways to foster more intergenerational connection within the life of our congregation as well as interest from the surrounding community. Thus, the idea was born to create an accessible, tournament-style, recreation event that might attract and allow individuals of all ages to participate. We have the space in our gym for it, and you have different circles of influence in which you can spread the word and help make this not just a church event, but a community event. So, please don’t let the word “tournament” scare you! Our goal is relationship-building and fun, not trophies and competition.

That being said, we are basically a week away from this event, so if you haven’t registered yet, please do so as soon as possible so we can get a better idea of just how many people to expect. If you have your own equipment, you are more than welcome to bring it! Furthermore, if you have any extra equipment (paddles and/or balls) that you are willing to let others use during this event, please let me know! Please follow this link to register:

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For those of you who still aren’t convinced, that is okay! We’d love to see you too, even if it means that you just come to watch! Once the event begins, the plan is to gather everyone to explain rules/set expectations before breaking up into different groups to play depending on experience level. We will also provide lunch and refreshments in our Fellowship Hall. If you wish to volunteer or contribute to the event in any way, whether that be sponsoring lunch, lending an extra hand to teach on the court, or even passing out water, there is a place for you! Just contact me via text or email, and we will set up a time to talk! As always, thank you all for your continued investment in the life of our church!

In truth and love,

Matt Waller

mwaller@fbcaiken.org

(704) 466-2321

It’s almost here! Sunday, February 23rd at 7:00 is our annual Dessert Auction! The Dessert Auction has proved to be the largest fundraiser in the life of our youth ministry. The funds raised provide scholarship money to supplement the cost of our trips for our youth. Currently, our youth have two main trips: Fall Retreat at $150 and Unidiversity at $400. Camps and retreats are essential in youth ministry! They provide the opportunity to focus on building and strengthening relationships. Youth who participate in retreats experience God in ways impossible to convey in a couple hours a week in a church building. Getting away from home and church allows time for the youth to simply be together. Experiencing different environments and new challenges along with spending an extended time with their peers will help to create unique memories, which are vital parts of forming more authentic and long-lasting friendships. Youth trips can get expensive, and I never want money to keep any of our youth from having these opportunities. Participating in this auction ensures there are always funds available for our youth.

Last year’s Dessert Auction was a HUGE success! Let’s do it again! It will be $5 per person at the door. Coffee, tea, water, and milk will be provided and served by the youth as you enjoy your desserts! Once again, this year we will be selling individual desserts as well. There is no expectation of participating in crazy bidding wars if that is not something you are interested in. But everyone loves community, and everyone loves dessert. So please come, buy a slice and spend the evening fellowshipping with your community!

I love this event. I love that this auction is possible because of the willingness of our congregation to donate desserts. I love the laughter and banter that comes along with bidding. I love watching the excitement on faces when dessert gets delivered to the table. More than anything, I love that so many people show up to support this ministry. Thank you for being a congregation who cares and so generously gives. I am excited to share this evening with you all!

Grace and Peace,

Sarah Laurence

Good afternoon, church!

I hope that you aware of an awesome opportunity that is coming up here at our church. Avid listeners of WAFJ 88.3 will know this already, but we are hosting Jordan Feliz in concert right here in our church on February 27, at 7:00 pm! This is a great chance for our church family and community to not only hear some great music but also showcase our wonderful church! In order for this to be the great success we’re dreaming of we are in need of some help. It takes a large team to make an event of this size happen. The tour is bringing their own crew and equipment, but they need our hands to make this work! We need able bodied individuals to give of their strength for load in and load out of equipment before and after the concert. We need a few individuals to help scan tickets, a few hands to sell merchandise outside of the concert, and a couple dedicated people willing to run our music artists and production crews around town a bit. If any of these sound like something you’d be willing to dive into, please reach out to me at zderr@fbcaiken.org, or even better, use the link below to sign yourself up for a job! With your help, we can show this community how we can craft space for fellowship, worship, prayer, and song!

Peace,

Zachary Derr

Director of Music & Worship

Tap here to sign up to volunteer

Dear Church Family,

After consultation with church leaders, I am excited to invite you to participate in a meaningful study titled “Creating Empowering Environments for Women in Baptist Congregations.”  This important research is led by Heather Deal, the Baptist Women in Ministry (BWIM) Director of Development, as part of her Ph.D. dissertation in Social Work.  It is conducted in partnership with BWIM. 

About the Study 

The study aims to assess and enhance gender equity within our congregation.  The first phase of the study, which was qualitative, has already been completed.  It examined the characteristics and procedures of congregations that have successfully created empowering environments for women.  Now, we are entering the second phase, a quantitative study, which involves assessing our congregation’s attitudes and actions toward gender equity and providing feedback on steps we can take to continue supporting the role of women in our church. 

How You Can Participate

Over the course of the next few weeks, you will receive a series of emails through our own email service inviting you to complete the survey.  That is all you need to do.  We hope you will take time to do this as we need the perspectives of men and women, older and younger individuals, and members and non-members.

Important Information

• All responses will be anonymous. 
• In any publications or public discussions resulting from this research, our church will not be named and will only be referred to using an alias. 
• Your email address is not being shared with any entity as we are using our own email system to send this information to you. 
• You will receive reminder emails over the next few weeks. 
• Each church, including ours, will have its own unique survey link, ensuring that all responses are solely from our congregation. After the survey is completed, we will receive a comprehensive report along with recommendations based on the findings. 

Your participation is invaluable as we strive to create an environment that is truly empowering for all women in our congregation.  Thank you for your support and participation in this effort. 

Grace and Peace, 

John